HOW TO BE
A RESPONSIBLE PERSON
(AND FEEL GREAT!)
When you agree to do something, do it. If you let people down, they'll stop believing you. When you follow through on your commitments, people take you seriously.
Firstly, you guys agreed to be with us in the first place. We did not force you to stay, merely encouraging you guys.
Answer for your own actions. Don't make excuses or blame others for what you do. When you take responsibility for your actions you are saying "I am the one who's in charge of my life."
We held discussions before. You guys agreed to stay on. And now you guys chose not to be part of us.
Take care of your own matters. Don't rely on adults to remind you when you're supposed to be somewhere or what you're supposed to bring. You take the responsibility.
Workload? Come'on. I'm in band for like so many freaking years, and I don't really see a problem in coping my studies and band. Yes, there maybe times where I really cannot manage well. However, that doesn't seems to be the excuse for me to choose not to be part of the band. Let's see, if there's one person in band who can't cope, what about the other members? So everyone will quit right? haha. Its all about managing your time, planning ahead.
Be trustworthy. If somebody trusts you to borrow or take care of something, take care of it. If somebody tells you something in confidence, keep it to yourself. It's important for people to know they can count on you.
We trust your words. We trust that you guys will take pride in your parts. Each and every part makes a difference in the band. Its up to you to believe it or not. So totally.
Always use your head. Think things through and use good judgment. When you use your head you make better choices. That shows your parents they can trust you.
When you can't cope, what is the first thing you think of?
"OH, must be my cca that is affecting my grades now!"
This can be partially true only. Right before those people whom chose to join this wonderful and enriching cca, I believe that most of them already thought about their studies. Like how are they going to manage their time well, so they can enjoy this great cca while studying in school. Ok, so maybe some don't. xD
Don't put things off. When you have a job to do, do it. Doing things on time helps you take control of your life and shows that you can manage your own affairs.
Finish your school work early. Do not leave everything till the late minute. "OH, so sorry I have to rush my school project, therefore I can't come today"
It shows your character, totally.
Article taken from GoodCharacter
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